Ye have asked about the significance of the expression
“sacrificial lover”. The mystery of sacrifice is a profound one, requiring
detailed explanation, but briefly it may be stated that sacrificial love is the
love shown by the moth towards the candle, by the parched wayfarer towards the
living fountain, by the true lover towards his beloved, by the yearning heart
towards the goal of its desire. The sacrificial lover, in other words, should
become entirely forgetful of self, enthralled by the Beloved, enamoured of His
countenance, and enraptured by His locks. Utterly unmindful of body, soul,
life, comfort, and existence, he should seek the good-pleasure of the True One,
desire to gaze upon His countenance, and wish to follow in His way. Inebriated
by the cup He proffereth and submissive in His hands, he should become
completely oblivious of his own existence so that, like unto the light of
truth, he may shine forth from the horizon of eternity. This is the first
degree of sacrifice. As for the second degree, it is in man’s becoming rid of
all attachment to the human world and finding deliverance from the darkness of
the contingent realm. In this degree, the radiance of the All-Merciful should
so suffuse and permeate his being that this nether world may pale into
non-existence before the reality of the Kingdom. When a lump of iron is cast
into the forge, its ferrous qualities of blackness, coldness, and solidity,
which symbolize the attributes of the human world, are concealed and disappear,
while the fire’s distinctive qualities of redness, heat, and fluidity, which
symbolize the virtues of the Kingdom, become visibly apparent in it, so that
the iron may be said to have sacrificed its own qualities and characteristics
to the fire, and to have acquired the virtues of that element. Even so is it
with man: When, released from earthly bonds, from human imperfections, and from
the darkness of the animal world, he setteth foot within the realm of the
unbounded, partaketh of the outpourings of the unseen world, and acquireth
divine virtues and perfections, then will he become a sacrificial lover of the
Sun of Truth and make haste with heart and soul to reach the place of
sacrifice.
- ‘Abdu’l-Baha (From a Tablet; ‘Additional Tablets, Extracts and
Talks’; online Baha’i Reference Library, Baha’i World Centre)