Marriage, among the mass of the people, is a physical bond,
and this union can only be temporary, since it is foredoomed to a physical
separation at the close.
Among the people of Baha, however, marriage must be a union
of the body and of the spirit as well, for here both husband and wife are aglow
with the same wine, both are enamoured of the same matchless Face, both live
and move through the same spirit, both are illumined by the same glory. This
connection between them is a spiritual one, hence it is a bond that will abide
forever. Likewise do they enjoy strong and lasting ties in the physical world
as well, for if the marriage is based both on the spirit and the body, that
union is a true one, hence it will endure. If, however, the bond is physical
and nothing more, it is sure to be only temporary, and must inexorably end in
separation.
When, therefore, the people of Baha undertake to marry, the
union must be a true relationship, a spiritual coming together as well as a
physical one, so that throughout every phase of life, and in all the worlds of
God, their union will endure; for this real oneness is a gleaming out of the
love of God.
In the same way, when any souls grow to be true believers,
they will attain a spiritual relationship with one another, and show forth a
tenderness which is not of this world. They will, all of them, become elated
from a draught of divine love, and that union of theirs, that connection, will
also abide forever. Souls, that is, who will consign their own selves to
oblivion, strip from themselves the defects of humankind, and unchain
themselves from human bondage, will beyond any doubt be illumined with the heavenly
splendours of oneness, and will all attain unto real union in the world that
dieth not.
- ‘Abdu’l-Baha (‘Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Baha’; The
Compilation of Compilations, Vol. II, Preserving Baha’i Marriages)